In this issue...

Intentional Elder Neighborhoods
By Alex Mawhinney


Aging in Community
by Jan Moran and Paul Rollins


Romancing the Developer
by Ann Zabaldo


The ElderSpirit Experience: Creating the Soft Structure
By Cinny Poppen


Dynamic Governance:
Key to a Nurturing Community

by Larilee Suiter


Dynamic Governance
by Gayatri Erlandson

 
 

From the editor...

This Spring 2010 issue of Itineraries continues our year-long focus on living in community which began in the Winter issue. In that issue we explored the natural first step in catalyzing community: the process of “Envisioning it.” In this issue we now turn to what’s important in “Building it.” Specifically, we look at the structures needed or options available – both architectural and organizational – for building community.

There are several kinds of community projects, each with its characteristic architectural style. The article by Alex Mawhinney and one by wife-and-husband team, Jan Moran and Paul Rollins, give a good idea of the various options. Some of these are quite recent and innovative housing designs.

In a very engaging article by Ann Zabaldo, entitled "Romancing the Developer," we discover the truth about the disadvantages in attempting to be our own developer. If you are serious about generating a community, please read this article!

This issue also includes articles on the organizational structures used in community. For years, consensus decision making was the dominant practice. And, as the article by Cinny Poppin shows, this approach continues to work well for in some communities -- ElderSpirit Community in Abingdon, Virginia, being a case in point.

Research, however, suggests that many more communities struggle with the consensus model. An alternative approach, Dynamic Governance (DG), appears very promising. As you’ll see from the article by Larilee Suiter of Champlain Valley Cohousing in Vermont, DG offers not just a good decision-making process, but a highly regarded organizational structure as well.

Dynamic Governance is emphasized in this issue for two reasons: first, it’s new on the scene and less familiar. And, secondly, I like it. I find it very exciting to watch its emergence in the community movement. My enthusiasm explains the last article included in this issue: my own background piece on the origins and application of DG -- or Sociocracy, as it is known in Europe.

Finally, we include with this issue a special bonus take-away for you to download as a PDF-- a condensation of a wonderful presentation by Elana Kann and Ann Zabaldo, who are both founders of the communities they live in (Kann of Westwood Cohousing in Asheville, NC, and Zabaldo of Takoma Cohousing in Washington, DC ). They put together an inventory of "Best Practice" for forming community groups and presented this information at the Mid-Atlantic Cohousing Conference held in Washington, DC, on March 20, 2010. What is presented here is a fraction of the still-growing list they have put together.

I personally am excited about the growth of the community movement. This growth is largely from the boomer generation, those born between 1945 and 1964. As someone who is part of that generation and soon to be turning 60 myself, I also am very interested in making sure I have a quality lifestyle in my senior years, and this to me means living in community.

I believe it takes a healthy, caring village to properly care for people of any age. And living in such a community is not only preferable on a social, emotional level, but is far more economical and environmentally sustainable.

Creating a community is one thing. Making sure it is healthy and caring is quite another. My passion for community is focused on sustainability of the people and their relationships, which requires that they have good structures of support – both architectural and organizational. In large part fueled by boomer interest, we now have many good choices and guides along the way.

May this issue spark your interest and imagination for generating your own truly nurturing, community environment.


Itineraries editor, Gayatri Erlandson, is a consultant and catalyst for collaborative community who lives in Asheville, NC. She will be co-facilitating a day-long workshop on Awakening the Storymaker on Saturday, May 29, in Asheville. See the announcement at the end of this page for further details and registration information.

 
 


To travel once again to Italy. To slow down and — in the good company of others — savor the scents, the colors, the rich landscapes and walk cobble- stone streets and alleyways where St. Francis and St. Clare once walked or Dante caught his first glimpse of Beatrice. And then to arrive in Florence where the medieval solidity and the Renaissance grandeur delicately balance one another. Imagine all this enchantment with friends and a special guide, Stefania, with a slower pace and time to linger. My wife Gregg and I look forward with great anticipation to all these pleasures. If not now, when?

— John G. Sullivan

John and Gregg will be joining the Second Journey tour to Umbria and Tuscany this October. John, Second Journey’s “philosopher in residence,” is emeritus professor of philosophy at Elon University where he taught for 36 years and the author of The Spiral of the Seasons. Gregg retired ten years ago from her role as the Associate Director of the the Methodist Student Center at UNC. For 13 years, the Sullivans taught together a popular year-long Elon seminar for select juniors and seniors titled “Quest for Wholeness.”

 

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Celebrating Earth Day 2010

The Earth as a Sacred Garden

In that rainforest, I saw and felt complexity-in-balance, and realized how far out of balance our industrial complexity is — infantile and clunky by comparison, with only thousands of years of experience as opposed to billions . . .

Dave Wann is the author of Affluenza: The All-Consuming Epidemic and Simple Prosperity: Finding Real Wealth in a Sustainable Lifestyle.

Reprinted from Spring 2008 issue of Itineraries


Anne Tyler's Compass: A Review

Becoming old is not the same thing as becoming an elder. We do the first just by putting in our time... Coming to wisdom is a much more mysterious process...

Bolton Anthony is the founder of Second Journey.


The Doorway to Compassion

"Do you not know you are wounded miracles?" This question opens the door to what is distinctive about compassion . . . The fact that we are both wounded and miracles bonds us together – with our Source, our deepest self and with all who companion us on the way . . .

Philosopher John G. Sullivan, a regular contributor to Itineraries, is the author of Living Large and The Spiral of the Seasons.


Compassion by John Clarke

I
Air by which we breathe…
Light by which we see…
Compassion, companion, let us
Hear your words, take heart in your silence,
Inhale, exhale your fragrance,
Feel the fingertips of your pulse on our brow,
Taste the nurture of your beauty.

II
Compassion, you lie in an empty bed…
Not so far away one of your agents soothes the brow
Of a starving child, while somewhat nearer others
Give their lives to working so no one need starve again.
Closer still, even the not so grievously sick and injured,
Robbed of sleep by some persistent intermittent buzzing
Vibration of an unwitting neighbor’s air conditioner,
Can pray for your brain balm to quench pain and fury,
Bring forgiveness by daybreak…So we may realize, at least
For an instant, that no window, no cacophonous barrier,
Can ever stop your breeze at dawn, light of life, dark gentle
Source, ever emerging, clear stream of water.

III
Suffering with…being passionate with…waiting with…
Compass of our heart…mirror of our soul…
Come pass over to…come pass over with…
Hand in hand with the other in pain…
Hand in hand with truest yourself…
Hand in hand with the leper, the prisoner, your worst enemy…
Hand in hand with the shadow, yourself, deepest reptilian brain
That would devour you with one snap, simply in fear, in unenlightened
Self-devouring survival…You must place yourself at its mercy to render
Mercy from fear, courage from doubt, generosity from clinging, hope from despair…
Seeing beauty in beast, in this vale of tears veiling the passion, the sweat blood brow.

IV
That all may be one, alone no more, all one here now…
Through Francis in Assisi you embrace your own fear…
Awful leper, your brother and sister and self…
Mystical limbs of mystical body, inter-being,
Creator spirit begetting and begotten of
Interdependent arising…
In, through, of, compassion.

V
So, when suddenly we see in a dream
Our dead nephew’s face looking back in the mirror
Alive and young and seeing not us but himself,
We can know we are all in an ocean of compassion…
We living and dead, each trying to catch a wave
Without knowing we are the very drops of seawater,
The tears themselves of compassion for all...
 

 

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