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Directed by Maureen Gorris

1995

Dutch with English Subtitles

   

"This is the only dance we dance."

Inasmuch as you did it to one of the least
 of these my brothers, you did it to me.
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A Long, Strong Line

Early in the film, widowed Antonia and her teenage daughter Danielle alight from the bus that delivers them to the World-War-II-ravaged Dutch country town of Antonia's birth. We see writing on the wall which reads “Welcome to our liberators.” It's our first hint of the impact that Antonia and her matrilineal clan will have on their ancestral home. They have come to bury Antonia's mother but remain to foster two more generations, as the film spans a period of about 50 years.

ANTONIA'S LINE, the 1996 Foreign-Language- film Oscar winner, is a family saga, and though it bears many of the familiar hallmarks of the form — the village full of colorful characters, the waxing and the waning of the seasons, and the inevitable conflicts between the needs of the individual and those of the community — the film is thoroughly original in its feminist simplicity. Antonia and her “line” of descendants generate a matrilineal heritage and an independence of thought whose effects extend beyond their immediate blood relations and permeate the community.

Beginning with Antonia's mother, who dies spewing invective at her long-gone philanderer of a husband, these self-defined women have little need for husbands. This is not the same as saying they have no need for sex — be it for pleasure, for procreation, or for love. Antonia makes a friend and ally of the kind widower with five sons who wants her hand. Years later, she agrees to sleep with him, though not to wed him. Danielle goes to the city to find herself a sperm donor when her urge for maternity strikes. Her daughter Therèse, a musical and mathematical prodigy, can find no man who's her intellectual equal, so, instead, she marries her best friend with whom she grew up and who loves her unconditionally.

Family, for this clan, includes much more than blood relations. Through the years, their family expands to embrace friends, neighbors, and refugees from the margins of society. There's simple-minded Loony Lips and retarded rape- victim DeeDee; Therèse's schoolteacher Lara who becomes Danielle's life partner; Letta, the unwed mother with nowhere to go; the self-defrocked cleric whose passion for life overwhelms his passion for religion; Crooked Finger, the dour philosopher hermit friend of Antonia and her offspring — all these, and more, become a part of Antonia’s daily life. It is in this context that Antonia wakes up, at the very beginning of the movie, knowing that this will be the day of her death. Surrounded by good company and ample evidence of a life well-spent, Antonia is ready to partake in the miracle of death — a miracle because it's a natural part of the brave mystery of life.

Previously best known for her gripping polemical narrative “A Question of Silence,” Dutch filmmaker Marleen Gorris, with ANTONIA'S LINE, infused her polemic with an all-inclusive humanism, and created a feminist fable for all time.

Steve Taylor

Some Points for Reflection

From ancient times, how a society receives the stranger — whether it responds with fear and hostility or with gracious hospitality — has been a measure of how civilized it is. One of the guises of Zeus, Zeus Xenios (from the Greek word of hospitality, xenia), underscores his role as the protector of strangers. In a similar way, Yahweh admonishes the Hebrew people: “You shall love the stranger, for you were once strangers in the land of Egypt.”2 And the Biblical stories go further, suggesting that guests carry gifts with them: When Abraham receives three strangers into his tent and offers them water, bread, and a choice tender calf, they reveal themselves to him as the Lord announcing that his wife Sarah will give birth to a son.

ANTONIA'S LINE is a rich, evocative meditation on the sacred meaning of  hospitality. In ever- expanding numbers, an eclectic assortment of social misfits find their way to Antonia's farmyard and the sanctuary of her boisterous Sunday lunches. They come because they find — in the “free space” that hospitality creates  — liberation: a “space where a stranger can enter and become a friend.” Dutch theologian Henri Nouwen continues:

Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer space where change can take place. [Paradoxically,] it wants to create emptiness, not a fearful emptiness, but a friendly emptiness where strangers can enter and find themselves free; free to sing their own songs, speak their own languages, dance their own dances.3

What gifts do these strangers bring? They bring themselves. They bring the gift of community. Society has said to them: “‘We do not need you. You are not important.’ Even worse...’We do not want you. You are the cause of our problems. You bring us only suffering.’” But as Wayne Muller goes on to assure us:

This was never true. It is not true now. The family of the earth aches for your gifts. We all need what you have. We cannot survive unless you join our circle and bring who you are to our gathering. Do not be afraid... A kind life, a life of spirit, is fundamentally a life of courage — the courage simply to bring what you have, to bring who you are.4

We are all longing to go home to some place we have never been — a place half remembered, half envisioned... Community. Somewhere, there are people to whom we can speak with passion without having the words catch in our throats. Somewhere a circle of hands will open to receive us, eyes will light up as we enter, voices will celebrate with us whenever we come into our own power. Community means strength that joins our strength to do the work that needs to be done. Arms to hold us when we falter. A circle of healing. A circle of friends. Someplace where we can be free.5

— Bolton Anthony



Retired lawyer and magistrate, Steve Taylor reviewed films for WHQR-FM, Wilmington, NC's public radio station, from 1995 through 2007 as a member of the Southeastern Film Critics Association. He now makes his homes in Philadelphia and Wilmington.

Bolton Anthony is the founder of Second Journey.

 

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Notes

          1           Matt. 25:40.

         2           Deut. 10: 19.

         3           Henri J.M. Nouwen, Reaching Out: The Three Movements of the Spiritual Life (Image Books, 1982) pp. 71-72.

         4           Wayne Muller, How, Then, Shall We Live: Four Simple Questions That Reveal the Beauty and Meaning of Our Lives (NY: Bantam Books 1996) p. 278.

         5           Starhawk, The Dreaming the Dark: Magic, Sex and Politics.