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Vision
— And Creating the Future You Most Want
© By Bruce Elkin
Editor's
note: The author is a Personal/Professional Coach with 20 years
experience. He helps people who are stuck, stalled, or
drifting to shift from solving problems to creating what
matters most to them in life, work, and everything.
This piece was excerpted from his book Simplicity and
Success: Creating the Life You Long For. He is also the
author of the eBook Emotional Mastery: Manage Your Moods
and Create What Matters—With Whatever Life Gives You!
The future is not some place we are going to,
but one we are creating … first in the mind … next in
activity.
The paths to it are not found but made, and the activity of
making them
changes both the maker and the destination.
— John Schaar
To create what you truly want, start
at the end, with a clear, compelling vision of the result
you want to create. This might not be as easy as it sounds.
“Learning
what to want,” said Sir Geoffrey Vickers, in Freedom in a
Rocking Boat, “is the most radical, the most painful,
and the most creative act in life.”
Part of
the difficulty stems from confusion around the word
“vision.” It is often used interchangeably with “purpose,”
“goal,” or “mission.” Although there are similarities
between these, it helps to clarify their specific meanings.
The
Concise Oxford defines them so:
Purpose: an object to be attained, a thing
intended.
Mission: a particular task or goal assigned to a
person or a group.
Goal: the object of ambition or effort, a
destination, an aim.
Vision: a thing or idea perceived vividly in the
imagination.
Imagine a
couple who desire to create a simple, ecologically
responsible, and successful life and business. “Our
PURPOSE,” they say, “is to create a simple yet rich life, in
harmony with the systems that sustain all life, and to help
others do the same.” “Our MISSION is to make simple,
affordable, eco-friendly housing available to everyone in
our bioregion who wants it.” “Our GOALS are to design and
build an eco-friendly home, develop an ecohousing business,
write a book and offer workshops on eco-housing.”
Because a
VISION is a clear, compelling mental picture of a result
you want to create, it can be applied to each of the
other three. It asks the question, “What would it look like
if I created the result I want? What would it look like if
I achieved my purpose? My mission? My goals? A vision of a
desired result generates energy. It inspires you to greater
effort. It helps you see where you are relative to where
you want to be.
Getting Started: An Example
Three questions can help you clarify a vision of what you
want to create.
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What result do I want to create?
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Why do I want to create that result?
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What would it look like if I successfully created that
result?
Try
this. Choose a simple, tangible result you want to
create. Write the result at the top of a sheet of paper.
Below it, write two short paragraphs. In the first, list the
reasons why you want to create this result. This helps you
discern if this is a creation you want for its own sake, or
something that supports a more important result. In the
second paragraph, describe what your result would look like
if you actually created it. Be specific. How big is it?
What color? What features does it have? What makes it
unique? How does it make you feel?
If your
result is non-physical, such as a job or relationship,
describe the aspects and qualities that make it what you
want. Describe any result as if you already completed it.
Here’s an
example of how Richard, an engineer. answered these
question, and reinvented himself and his life:
A high quality, handcrafted mountain bike made from
recycled parts.
I want the challenge of building a great bike cheaply. I
want to get in shape and be healthy. I want to live simply,
drive less, and create less pollution. I want to spend time
outdoors, not money on gas. I want to have fun exploring
the trails up behind my house with my friends.
The bike is a silver-grey, dual-suspension, aluminum-framed
bike with carbon forks, grip shifters, top of the line
Shimano drive train, and an independently suspended crank.
It weighs 25 pounds and cost less than $500. I love riding
it and feel proud that I made it myself.
Vision
acts as an attractor. It draws you forward.
When held in tension with current reality, it generates
energy needed to organize decisions and action in support of
what matters.
A vision
provides a clear picture and criteria against which to
measure progress and success. Always use “vision” as in, “a
vision of a desired end result.”
A vision
is not a thing in itself. It is not an affirmation you put
out to the universe and passively expect to receive results
in return. It’s a clear, compelling description of a result
that you care enough about to act on and create.
Vision
can be a unifying force. It helps you focus
values and organize actions. Some visions, such as for your
life, or career will be large and all encompassing. Others,
such as a vision of a cottage, or a book you want to write,
will be smaller. Others, such as a garden, or birthday
party for a friend, will be smaller yet. You need a vision
for each result you want to create.
Vision
can also be an impelling force. It motivates and
empowers you. It helps you persevere in the face of
difficult circumstances and adversity. It enables you to
stretch beyond limits and produce extraordinary results.
Over time,
specific results you create will organically accumulate into
the life you envision vividly in your mind. The rest of
your life could turn on a vision you craft today, tomorrow,
or over the next few weeks.
After he
built his bike, Richard radically refocused his life. He
built more bikes, which he sold to friends. Emboldened by
that success, he quit his engineering job, downsized to a
smaller house, opened a small shop, and began living a
simple, yet rich, and fully engaged life as a custom bike
builder.
“I am
happy now,” he says. “Happier by far than when I was
engineering and had no time to get out on the trails with
friends. Now people pay me to take them out riding. It is
just awesome.”
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Bruce Elkin lives on Saltspring Island in
British Columbia. More of his work can be found on
his website at
BruceElkin.com. |
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